把玩生活
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>好久没有静下心来码字了，偶尔发几张照片滥竽充数，就如同点个外卖或预制菜用以充饥，总是缺少了几分烟火气。</p><p> </p><p>之所以拿这个做比喻，也是蹭一下西贝和罗永浩预制菜之争的热度，预制菜之所以流行，一定有它的原因，方便、便捷，给这个快节奏的时代提供了不少便利，但抛去方便之外，我们也不能再奢望它提供给我们更多了。</p><p> </p><p>美食一定是有生命的，不然也不会有那么多美食家孜孜不倦的追求。但美食的定义却是宽泛的，远超色香味的定义。记忆里妈妈的味道、爱人精心准备的早餐、自己对着食谱研究了好久的新菜色……不一定都是多么的美味，但却都远超美食本身。</p><p> </p><p>其实任何一件事情都是如此，当我们投入了足够多的时间和精力，不管这件事情最后结果如何，我们一定会获得远超这个事情本身的意义和收获。</p><p> </p><p>最近之所以没有时间码字，其实主要的因素是老二刚刚入学，生活好像突然迈入到了另外一个状态，全家都在努力的适应。整个作息时间也有了很大的改变。</p><p> </p><p>早上六点一刻起床做早饭，六点四十叫女儿起床吃饭，七点十分出门送女儿上学，七点半返回，七点四十五出门送儿子上学，八点五分返回驱车上班。</p><p> </p><p>下午五点半下班后，立马往家赶，五点四十接儿子放学，六点接女儿放学，六点半买菜做饭，七点吃晚饭，七点半开始收拾卫生，督促孩子写作业，九点开始准备洗漱，十点半之前上床睡觉。</p><p> </p><p>日复一日，周而复始。加班、聚会都统统取消，甚至连跑步健身，也要早上五点多起床，牺牲睡觉的时间来完成。</p><p> </p><p>偶尔静下来的时候也反思一下，这样忙碌到底值不值？每天花那么多时间用来接送孩子，花那么多时间用来做一顿晚饭，花那么多时间用来打扫房间。</p><p> </p><p>如今这个时代，时间无疑是宝贵的，感情更加的宝贵。而两者又有着千丝万缕的联系，所谓日久生情，便是这个意思。</p><p> </p><p>当我们费劲心思去研究一道美食，从食材的选购、火候的大小、味道的调制，花费了一上午的时间，当端上餐桌的那一刻，或许味道和外观并不是多么完美，但品尝起来一定是有滋有味的。是任何预制菜替代不了的。</p><p> </p><p>当我们花费时间接送孩子上学放学，偶尔交流几句或者一言不发，或是买个他喜欢的零食或玩具，虽然平平无奇，但是上学放学的路上不再孤单无聊。多年以后或许他还能想起那个陪伴的身影，或许早已忘记，但那份温暖早已伴随他成长。</p><p> </p><p>文玩界有个专门的名词，叫做“盘”，盘串儿、盘核桃。当时间和精力用在毫无生命的物件上，日复一日，仍能发挥出如此大的魅力，盘出了包浆、盘出了感情甚至盘出了文化。</p><p> </p><p>而生活更需要这种“盘”的精神，需要我们耐着性子，细细把玩。</p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20250917160453front2_0_1673437_FtTcNmw4-0wgJb14Q6PVrOrD-D19.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOWIq-S6pumavg==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1024" height="768" 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data-qf-origin="forum/20250917161103front2_0_1673437_FnLxI5ZqAEIwBxwc5ykNzZMi59wh.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOWIq-S6pumavg==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/57/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p> </p> <!----></div> 娓娓道来了普通人家的真实生活 好！！！！！！！！！！难老师的文字里能看得出难老师很幸福，也很看重亲情，也非常真诚。
另外难老师的腿毛也很塞克西！！！！！！！ 我看我是闲的 享受 冷如霜 发表于 2025-9-17 16:48
我看我是闲的
看来是职业病啊 好吃的不是拉面 发表于 2025-9-17 16:42
好！！！！！！！！！！
难老师的文字里能看得出难老师很幸福，也很看重亲情，也非常真诚。
另外难老师的腿 ...
拉面哥的关注点与众不同 冷如霜 发表于 2025-9-17 16:48
我看我是闲的
专业 Q0010 发表于 2025-9-17 16:26
娓娓道来了普通人家的真实生活
看来你的工作时间比较自由啊，这些都归你管。家里两个孩子上学的大部分如此，天天奔波在送孩子接孩子的路上 冷如霜 发表于 2025-9-17 16:48
我看我是闲的
霜霜你太厉害了 游泳的鱼001 发表于 2025-9-17 19:58
看来你的工作时间比较自由啊，这些都归你管。家里两个孩子上学的大部分如此，天天奔波在送孩子接孩子的路上
这是我和媳妇两人合作完成的工作
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